Friendship Only

The world in which we live today has many shades of personalities. Our portal is a platform through which we encourage friendship of like minded people. So what makes the platform different from so many platforms which are there in the web space? Our web portal harps on maturity and sobriety. A true love can even prosper in non sexual and spiritual relationship. In fact relationship which get built on platforms of love, trust and companionship will stay longer then one which is based on physical desires. But how the same can be achieved? The members are expected to have maturity of mind and should desist from sharing and discussing any unpleasant issues.

When a relationship is built, members who are in to relationship expose some part of their personas which could be shared with others with trust and confidence. The relationship involves commitment, trust and ability to laugh on themselves. Psychologists break persona in to three distinct parts, Child, Adult and Parent. Child part of ones personality is always cheerful and loves to share incidents, jokes etc. Child personality doesn’t mind blurting it out without thinking about the consequences. Adult part of our personality is wary of consequences and thinks a lot before he or she decides to take any action. Parent part of personality is instructive and always reprimands the child within us for taking impromptu actions. But it is the child part which drives the sexual relationship while it is the adult part which puts it in platonic space. Whatever it may be, the relationship gets built on the fact that it is about giving and not taking.

Friendship can exist in varied forms. An old person can be friends with a kid. Similarly an old lady can be friends with a young man. Unlimited combinations and groups can be formed but the underlying message remains that relationship has to be built on matured thoughts. An old man enters in to a relationship with a kid for pristine love. This sort of relationship gives him the kick. Relationship can prosper anywhere. But the bonding can only be gauged from the fact that how long it has withstood the winds of change and acrimony.